So, I got a flagged profile report this morning, and so I went to take a peek at the profile. I couldn’t see anything overtly offensive, as the flagging said, so I wrote a message to the flagger and asked for some details.
The upshot is that a man had reached out, moving from “Hello, Gorgeous,” to cock shot in 7 messages or less, without any real expressed interest from her.
In fact, he’d asked if she had an interest in a particular fetish, and she said “No,” so he sent a pic of what she would be missing.
So, of course, I thanked her for reporting the issue, and sent this message to the flagged user:
Your profile has been suspended because you’ve been reported for sending an unsolicited photo of your genitalia to another member.
That’s SO not cool.
Like really, really not cool.
And so, here we are. Your profile is suspended and will stay that way if we do not get an email from you at email@example.com stating that you understand the following:
1. We have private photo albums where you can post what you like, so your friends on-site can see what you’re offering. These albums allow you to set them for ‘Friends Only,’ ‘Certain Friends,’ and ‘Password Protected,’ so you have a lot of options for sharing photos.
2. You are welcome to send photo attachments via message AFTER getting consent.
See? It’s easy.
Thank you so much for your understanding! We look forward to hearing back from you and releasing your profile.
Dating Kinky Teammember
P.S. If we do not hear from you with 15 days, your profile will be deleted.
You see, we have a lot of options for sharing your junk consensually, so that non-consensual stuff is just, well, not allowed.
And it’s rude.
So don’t do it.
And if someone does it to you, please report it. We will need screen captures for our files (for our records, not for our perving, silly people!), to be sure we are acting on good faith, of course.
So, thank you very much for supporting a consensual sexy safe space for all kinksters, and please keep up the reporting!